Abby

You're going to be a mom or you're going to be a working lady?

Like, and it's like, oh gosh.

Totally.

That's a tough place to be.

And then I feel like a lot of women too, like they go into the career field and they're like really excited and passionate about it.

They get pregnant, have a baby, and they're like, I actually don't care about any of that anymore.

And so like, there's that too.

Totally.

There's so many different aspects of it.

But on the angle of like being a working mom, I thought, like I used to,

Something Sadie Robertson actually once totally changed this around for me.

But I used to feel every time I like had to do something for work and be away from the kids, I would like literally try to condense everything jam-packed, which I already condense it to part-time.

But like I would literally like be like, okay, maybe what can I get done in one hour?

Like and try to get everything done.

And then I would just be super stressed the whole time and like try to never be away.

And like I felt really guilty.

Like my...

my default is kind of like going towards guilt usually I'm like I'm not doing good enough mom not doing enough for them and something she said is like I'm gonna butcher it so I'm not even gonna try to quote it but something about like taking pride in what you do for work can gives your kids confidence too and how like that can also serve them so now when I talk about it I'm very intentional I'm like

I'm going to go work and you're going to do fun stuff like with grandma, like things like that.

And then now they talk to me about it.