Abby

But anyway, like,

this isn't what i want down the line totally and well that's what she thought and actually i noticed in this that listening that song again she literally says what i want she it's like she changed like she just fully changed her mind she said that's what she wants totally which is interesting do we know what her ex-husband's up to um he's dating a new person now and she was just dating chase stokes and they recently broke up um the guy from outer banks

that might be another thing people are having kids later because they know they can freeze their eggs like that's a more common thing now wait why are you wait i'm dumb am i am i dumb so wait if you no no no so you can't have kids though after you've gone through menopause right now even if you've frozen your eggs yeah no but are they thinking that these eggs are healthier eggs because they're like younger eggs than when they would have them yeah well it's like as you get older every year you have less eggs

This actually brings up a bigger conversation.

See, this is something we also need to work on.

Okay, well, that is interesting.

Well, I guess she's 32.

Yeah, she can still do this thing.

They probably start later.

Okay, that's when I gave birth.

What am I talking about, you guys?

I'm literally the culture.

i feel like i went through a little bit of an identity crisis i feel like it hit right after we had our first kid where i was like i just remember one morning i was like i like my eggs scrambled and i was like it was like a big proclamation because we had been eating over easy eggs for like two years

And I was like, I like him scrambled.

And then I was just like, and I like cheese.

Like I just started to think of like all the things where I was like, man, we have just like, I have adapted and like grown around you so much and him vice versa.

But where I was like, gosh, where would I be independent of you?

Like what decisions would I have made?

Like, and I think that it's not like,

it's not like oh gosh the grass is greener on the other side of this but it did come to a point where i was like my gosh i've literally become an adult with you like i formed around you we formed around each other like what would i be like what in this alternate life like what would i even be like and so i feel like it did kind of cause like a little bit of like what is happening like what do i like