Abby

where do i like what is happening i don't know and so i do think that other people that get married young feel this way too because i feel we brought it up on a podcast one time i think other people were like yeah like that's great and it's awesome but then there's certain times where i'm just like what would i what would i have been like if i had been single in my 20s until i was like at least the average of like 28 what was it 27 i can't even imagine that

I can't imagine it either.

I don't know who I would be.

That's what, that's what made me spiral.

That, I don't want to think about that actually.

No, but it did kind of, I was like, like my legs scrambled and then it was just like so interesting.

I was like, you know, and then I started to think, I was like, I don't cook with cheese because I live with you.

And I just started to think, I was like, we live, we do this for our job.

We live here.

And it was like, we had agreed on all of those decisions together.

And like, we were excited about them, but it just comes, I feel like there was a time where it just like all caught up to me.

I was like, what would I be like?

Totally.

And I think that that is...

Something interesting.

Yeah.

A pro is that it was really easy to adjust to marriage.

Yeah.

Because we didn't know any different.

I never lived independently.