Abby

I'm literally the culture.

i feel like i went through a little bit of an identity crisis i feel like it hit right after we had our first kid where i was like i just remember one morning i was like i like my eggs scrambled and i was like it was like a big proclamation because we had been eating over easy eggs for like two years

And I was like, I like him scrambled.

And then I was just like, and I like cheese.

Like I just started to think of like all the things where I was like, man, we have just like, I have adapted and like grown around you so much and him vice versa.

But where I was like, gosh, where would I be independent of you?

Like what decisions would I have made?

Like, and I think that it's not like,

it's not like oh gosh the grass is greener on the other side of this but it did come to a point where i was like my gosh i've literally become an adult with you like i formed around you we formed around each other like what would i be like what in this alternate life like what would i even be like and so i feel like it did kind of cause like a little bit of like what is happening like what do i like

where do i like what is happening i don't know and so i do think that other people that get married young feel this way too because i feel we brought it up on a podcast one time i think other people were like yeah like that's great and it's awesome but then there's certain times where i'm just like what would i what would i have been like if i had been single in my 20s until i was like at least the average of like 28 what was it 27 i can't even imagine that

I can't imagine it either.

I don't know who I would be.

That's what, that's what made me spiral.

That, I don't want to think about that actually.

No, but it did kind of, I was like, like my legs scrambled and then it was just like so interesting.

I was like, you know, and then I started to think, I was like, I don't cook with cheese because I live with you.

And I just started to think, I was like, we live, we do this for our job.

We live here.

And it was like, we had agreed on all of those decisions together.

And like, we were excited about them, but it just comes, I feel like there was a time where it just like all caught up to me.