Abby

Okay, that's when I gave birth.

What am I talking about, you guys?

I'm literally the culture.

i feel like i went through a little bit of an identity crisis i feel like it hit right after we had our first kid where i was like i just remember one morning i was like i like my eggs scrambled and i was like it was like a big proclamation because we had been eating over easy eggs for like two years

And I was like, I like him scrambled.

And then I was just like, and I like cheese.

Like I just started to think of like all the things where I was like, man, we have just like, I have adapted and like grown around you so much and him vice versa.

But where I was like, gosh, where would I be independent of you?

Like what decisions would I have made?

Like, and I think that it's not like,

it's not like oh gosh the grass is greener on the other side of this but it did come to a point where i was like my gosh i've literally become an adult with you like i formed around you we formed around each other like what would i be like what in this alternate life like what would i even be like and so i feel like it did kind of cause like a little bit of like what is happening like what do i like

where do i like what is happening i don't know and so i do think that other people that get married young feel this way too because i feel we brought it up on a podcast one time i think other people were like yeah like that's great and it's awesome but then there's certain times where i'm just like what would i what would i have been like if i had been single in my 20s until i was like at least the average of like 28 what was it 27 i can't even imagine that

I can't imagine it either.

I don't know who I would be.

That's what, that's what made me spiral.

That, I don't want to think about that actually.

No, but it did kind of, I was like, like my legs scrambled and then it was just like so interesting.

I was like, you know, and then I started to think, I was like, I don't cook with cheese because I live with you.

And I just started to think, I was like, we live, we do this for our job.

We live here.