Abby

Like by the age of 27.

Totally.

And, like, obviously people look at marriage and kids as, like, such a sacrifice because it is.

Totally.

But making those sacrifices also has, like, a way of, like, refining you as a person where it's, like...

I don't know.

It has completely changed how I view like honestly everything in life, both of those things.

And it's just a, it's just a practice every single day in selflessness.

And I think that's the thing that we have to counteract the most as humans.

I feel like our nature is like very selfish, which kind of have to be, gosh, there's probably some evolutionary reason.

Like you had to be selfish if you're a pack.

But anyway, like,

this isn't what i want down the line totally and well that's what she thought and actually i noticed in this that listening that song again she literally says what i want she it's like she changed like she just fully changed her mind she said that's what she wants totally which is interesting do we know what her ex-husband's up to um he's dating a new person now and she was just dating chase stokes and they recently broke up um the guy from outer banks

that might be another thing people are having kids later because they know they can freeze their eggs like that's a more common thing now wait why are you wait i'm dumb am i am i dumb so wait if you no no no so you can't have kids though after you've gone through menopause right now even if you've frozen your eggs yeah no but are they thinking that these eggs are healthier eggs because they're like younger eggs than when they would have them yeah well it's like as you get older every year you have less eggs

This actually brings up a bigger conversation.

See, this is something we also need to work on.

Okay, well, that is interesting.

Well, I guess she's 32.

Yeah, she can still do this thing.

They probably start later.