Abby

One of my best advice pieces of advice for newlyweds is to surround yourself with other married people.

That like have marriages that you also admire.

You just need a gripe.

No, I think it's healthy.

There's a way to be honest about like, hey, we're having this thing come up and like

That feels productive.

And then one that's like, okay, you're just trying to bash on your wife.

Well, I was just curious about this because like more on the topic of thinking about, I'm like, gosh, this has been on my mind a lot recently.

Thinking about the fact that a lot of people, like couples and families that are on reality TV break apart.

I think about every TLC family and every, you know,

Tori?

Zach's parents divorced.

Like all of these, it's just, it's running rampant on the reality TV side.

It's starting to happen on the social media side too.

So that's how I was thinking about it.

I'm like, obviously these, these things haven't made it to the list yet.

Also, they're kind of niche still like, um, so that's not going to probably make it on lists like this.

But, um, which was more reason why I said like, that's why, like, I feel like we wouldn't really be in like, we're, we probably go to marriage therapy like once every three, four weeks.

But we probably wouldn't need that.

I mean, I don't think we would choose to do that if we didn't work together.