Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
People are just so quick to just be like, leave him.
Chapter 2: What are the challenges of getting married before 25?
If I had a dollar for every comment or like on a comment for people that told you to leave me, I would have a lot of dollars.
Getting married under the age of 25, you have a higher rate of divorce by up to 25%.
We were children when we started dating. Yeah. But there's like pros and cons, right?
Compromise wasn't exactly possible.
That was like a hurdle in our relationship we had to overcome. And we did. We figured it out.
I got my way.
Are men or women more likely to cheat? Let me look that up.
Men.
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Chapter 3: What are the most difficult periods of marriage?
Why men?
Because they think with their pee-pee.
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Chapter 4: What are the largest indicators of divorce?
We're about marriage and divorce.
Which is actually kind of funny because I had people submit some questions today and someone literally thought we were divorced, which is so sweet.
Chapter 5: What are the most common reasons for divorce?
No, I feel like that's, I thought that, I was like, you're literally going to make it sound like we're getting divorced.
We're not getting divorced, guys. We're just having a conversation about it, which I think is actually so important to have these conversations in marriage.
Chapter 6: How do jobs impact divorce rates?
Because if you avoid uncomfortable conversations in your marriage, it's just going to grow like a disconnect between you.
Okay, actually, I was like looking at what we had prepared for this episode. And the thing that surprised me the most, because I feel like we talk, gosh, we talk endlessly about young marriage. Apparently, getting married under the age of 25, you have a higher rate of divorce by up to 25%.
Do you think that changes how we should advise our kids on marriage? Like if we have a kid that comes to us wanting to get married like we did when we were 19, are we going to encourage them to wait? Because then there's data that shows if you cohabitate, if you cohabitate, there's a likelihood that then you split up too.
Chapter 7: What are the benefits of marriage?
We are saying that if you live together before you're married, you're more likely to get divorced.
Yeah. That's what Arthur Brooks told us too. And there's research to support that.
Chapter 8: What does 'Agree to Disagree' involve?
Um, I think it all boils down, maybe this just makes me sound like a hopeless romantic, but I think it just all boils down to when you meet your person.
Yeah, you do sound like a hopeless romantic.
Would you describe me as one?
Well, here's the thing, babe. We got married freaking young, but we're also nearly a decade in almost seven years of marriage. This summer is seven years of marriage. And so we're clearly experts in the topic. I want to say it's probably... There's pros and cons, right? I feel like it's harder because we've changed so much because we were children when we started dating.
Yeah.
But like, we also have grown up together.
I actually think the determining factor on whether or not you stay married boils down to whether or not you both are willing to work on it.
oh yeah that's good snaps like i'm snapping here's the thing you have to actually be willing to work on it because it's like and there's some i mean that that is some things you could maybe decide like i am not willing to work on this anymore yeah like that's valid but it's that's as simple as it's like are you willing to work on it yeah now there's the things that are like maybe you shouldn't work on this anymore like
you know what i mean i i honestly think that you kind of hit the nail on the head there and we pretty much can just end the podcast there thanks for tuning in everybody people have to be willing to like one person yeah i feel like a lot of times in these marriages where are like one person gives up one person is like i've been working i've been working on this for so long yeah and you're not putting any effort yeah so it's like what is the point anymore and i can see where you i mean
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