Adam Schafer

get mature, wait till you're 25 to 28, and then you find a girl who's three years younger than you and you live somewhere in the middle of the country and you absolutely... Be disciplined and happy already.

Well, I believe the dating process is part of what I, when I'm, when I allude to, you should grow, learn.

And like, I mean, that's part of that.

Like the, the, the best experience for dating for me in my twenties was not like, Oh, just because I was trying to have fun.

It was like, I was learning about myself.

Like that would like that whole process was, I mean, when I, when you're, I mean, and this is why I'm not a fan of a 21 or 22 year old young man getting married is because at 22, you think, you know what you want.

And most men don't.

By the time you're 30, you get a little bit better idea of what you want.

Probably 35, you realize, oh, shit, this is what I value.

That's a huge part of it.

I mean, and also a great argument.

Well, even just having a... I mean, it's unfortunate, but we don't have a lot of people that don't come from a family.

That's all you get like that.

Having an example of a mother and father that stuck together and did it and worked through things and uncles and aunts that did it and like...

Yeah, no, agreed, agreed.

I mean, that's all part of the growing process.

Oh, I mean, I think it's one of the greatest analogies to that or examples is when you talk about like what kings and queens had.

Yeah.

I mean, like somebody who is in like poverty has more luxury than somebody.

And yet this, I mean, so think about that for a second.