Adam Schafer

Yeah.

And agree with that.

But again, I think that women are far more mature at middle 20s than men are.

And so I think in an ideal world, it's like guys are waiting until they're closer to 30.

Girls are probably around 25.

and just enjoy your life and here's what's happening they're not enjoying their life they're less happy yeah they're far less happy i think the the the commentary that i want to bring that conversation is because i don't want to happen what i feel like we always do in society which is swing from one extreme to the other extreme oh we don't get married go this way oh get married right away it's like there's actually somewhere there's some logic do you think people were less happy when it was in the other direction

When they were really young.

No, I know they weren't.

I mean, you're bringing up the studies that prove the opposite of that.

That's right.

But I also think that 30, 40 years ago, there were a lot of other things.

30 years ago, a family could have one person working and they could survive in a single home.

The data on that's not true.

Well, because we live in bigger houses and things like that.

People live well below our boundaries.

So if we actually do apples to apples- Sure, that's a logical argument.

Problem is perception is reality.

And that's why-

this young generation perceives it this way that's that's why i don't disagree with the logic that you make but the average person who's 20 years old doesn't see it that way and if that's their perception that's the reality which then will cause them to be depressed sad and yes i can't afford both me and my wife have to work no 100 that's why it's important to talk about and there are many places i know we don't live in one of these places where we live is one of the most expensive in the world but there are many places in america which very affordable yeah

No, I think there is, I think great advice is for a young man to build himself, grow, learn, educate, build skills,