Adam Schafer

No, I know they weren't.

I mean, you're bringing up the studies that prove the opposite of that.

That's right.

But I also think that 30, 40 years ago, there were a lot of other things.

30 years ago, a family could have one person working and they could survive in a single home.

The data on that's not true.

Well, because we live in bigger houses and things like that.

People live well below our boundaries.

So if we actually do apples to apples- Sure, that's a logical argument.

Problem is perception is reality.

And that's why-

this young generation perceives it this way that's that's why i don't disagree with the logic that you make but the average person who's 20 years old doesn't see it that way and if that's their perception that's the reality which then will cause them to be depressed sad and yes i can't afford both me and my wife have to work no 100 that's why it's important to talk about and there are many places i know we don't live in one of these places where we live is one of the most expensive in the world but there are many places in america which very affordable yeah

No, I think there is, I think great advice is for a young man to build himself, grow, learn, educate, build skills,

get mature, wait till you're 25 to 28, and then you find a girl who's three years younger than you and you live somewhere in the middle of the country and you absolutely... Be disciplined and happy already.

Well, I believe the dating process is part of what I, when I'm, when I allude to, you should grow, learn.

And like, I mean, that's part of that.

Like the, the, the best experience for dating for me in my twenties was not like, Oh, just because I was trying to have fun.

It was like, I was learning about myself.

Like that would like that whole process was, I mean, when I, when you're, I mean, and this is why I'm not a fan of a 21 or 22 year old young man getting married is because at 22, you think, you know what you want.

And most men don't.