Adam Schafer

So again, the better age could be, say, 30, 34, and it's not really getting married at 22, 23.

My point to your point.

to get a counter your point is i'm not pro getting married between 20 and 23 years old and you're so pro you're getting young and it comes off that way when you say that so i'm coming back the other direction being like okay i understand that married people are happy and i agree that we've sold this dream of or we've told people that oh be single make all this

money bang lots of girls and the peter pan syndrome and i don't agree with that but i also think that uh people getting married at a really young age is not always a good idea yeah i'm not saying that i'm just saying well it can come off that way when you read it when you read what you just i'm reading exactly what the data says uh which is that the happiness rate from 22 to 35 year olds has plummeted among those who are unmarried right right

I know, but when you report a study like that and you give a range like that, it could be interpreted to somebody who's 21 years old that, hey, it's a good idea for me to get married right now.

Yeah, because that is, and I agree with that.

I think the conversation is different for men and women, in my opinion.

So I would encourage a woman to get married at a younger age.

I would encourage a man to get married at an older age.

Mm-hmm.

I think a 25-year-old woman is totally different maturity-wise than a 25-year-old boy.

Yeah.

And I think that's because of the stupid narrative that we've pushed on women for the last – That's my point.

Yeah.

And agree with that.

But again, I think that women are far more mature at middle 20s than men are.

And so I think in an ideal world, it's like guys are waiting until they're closer to 30.

Girls are probably around 25.

and just enjoy your life and here's what's happening they're not enjoying their life they're less happy yeah they're far less happy i think the the the commentary that i want to bring that conversation is because i don't want to happen what i feel like we always do in society which is swing from one extreme to the other extreme oh we don't get married go this way oh get married right away it's like there's actually somewhere there's some logic do you think people were less happy when it was in the other direction

When they were really young.