Adam

And she didn't call me back or whatever.

And she said, you always try a second time, but no more than two.

okay she said always try if she doesn't respond give her a week try again if she doesn't respond to the second time then she's done but always try to because she said you don't know what's going on in their life no you kind of do but you know she could have died or got in a car accident or she's in the hospital with it with a broken leg doesn't matter but she says always try a second time don't let your ego get in the way okay try a second time and then if she doesn't

Okay.

No, no.

It's not a second time.

It's twice.

You reach out twice without a response.

after a response I thought it was one time no no it's not two times total it's that if you if you send a text and you don't get a response you know wait a certain number of days yeah send a second I mean obviously it wasn't texting back then it was phone calls yeah but you know try a second time if she doesn't respond if you've given two if you've reached out twice and she then then you don't

Exactly.

And that's what I was like two times.

And then we went out a third time.

uh yeah that's a that's a yeah that's a deal breaker someone who's embarrassed by their body yeah because that that's indicative of her being insecure about how she looks and you want someone who feels good about how they look regardless of how they look you want them to feel good about how they look you know body positivity or whatever it's called but i i want someone who owns who owns what they look like and i just find i mean i spent a long time since i've been with a woman who refused to have the lights on during sex and lights on i mean like low lighting you know candlelight that kind of

You don't want like fluorescent lights beaming down.

Yeah, total, total deer breaker for me.

Absolutely.

You got to be a little bit of a risk taker for me.

That's the kind of partner I want.

I want someone who's a bit of a risk taker.

You got to have a personality.