Adam

If you're rude to waitstaff, there's other issues going on with you that are going to be bad.

So that's probably a deal breaker.

Someone who doesn't understand the right way to interact with people that are serving you.

That's no good.

No, I am.

But what you are asking is for a long-term relationship, is that a deal breaker?

And for a long-term relationship, it is.

When I'm just getting to know someone, it's not a deal breaker.

I'm learning them.

But if that continued as we got closer, yeah, that would be no good.

Right.

So here's why, and this is really interesting.

Yeah.

When I was in my 20s, I told you I was really into older women when I was in my 20s.

Yeah.

And so I was dating women in their 30s and 40s.

And it was great because they really taught me, A, a lot about sex and also a lot about relationships and a lot about women.

And one of them gave me a great piece of advice that has been invaluable to me.

Okay.

Was this, because I was trying, I was someone I was interested in way back when.