Ademus
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As you know, that's a question.
Sorry, I'm a little nervous.
Oh, you're good, bro.
And I don't know the question that's coming, so let it rip.
So my question was, how do I, like, I need a toolkit.
How do I respond to when my girlfriend is depressed?
So I guess I'll give some details.
So, you know, recently, like a week or two ago, she started taking medication because, you know,
She's clinically depressed.
She found out and We've been you know, we spend time together and she so she's not just grouchy or sad.
This is this is a real deal Lucille Yeah, like she gets in she gets in these head spaces and sometimes it's bipolar be for no reason or if like a little thing like if we have like a little disagreement kind of so overly blame herself and get in a headspace and I feel bad and I I
I'd sit where I ask her, like, how can I help, and I'm sorry, and then sometimes that doesn't even help, and she's just stuck there, and there's nothing I can do to help her, and I feel bad, and I'm afraid I'm building up resentment from it, and I feel bad about myself, and I'm like, no.
So I just don't know what to do.
I want to know what's the right thing to do.
How do I properly approach this, you know?