Aja Evans

super super important especially because i know that people are not having these types of conversations before they get married so i always think that prenups just like budgets need a new pr campaign we need to do something else we need to stop looking at them like they are a negative thing when really hopefully during the height of your love when you're like i can't wait to tie myself to you for the rest of my life that you are also like how do we take care of each other if something does happen to the relationship

Should I have gotten one?

Okay, fair, fair, fair.

I mean, it depends.

Honestly, it depends.

One of my best friends is actually going to be getting engaged soon and getting married, and I told her she should not get a prenup.

Oh, that's interesting.

Why'd you say that?

Because, I mean, she's marrying an extremely wealthy person and they're getting married in California.

Now, granted, the state that you get divorced, that's where the laws will be ruling your divorce.

But if you're marrying someone that's extremely well off, why would you want anything on paper?

Go with what the state is going to say.

And in California, you're going to get half.

Yeah.

Yes, because if they do a contract, then his lawyer is going to tell him, hey, you should not give her as much because he has so much money.

So I wouldn't advise every single person to get a prenup.

Do you have a prenup?

If you're marrying...

I have a prenup.

I have a prenup.