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Podcast Appearances
There are things that I... There's full ground stop morality things. I don't like pepperoni on my pizza. That's an opinion. Do you know what I mean? And when your opinions or...
miten ideologiat ja asioita, joita sanoit, jos ne vahvistavat minun omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa omaa
Changes in our country and our laws and in the way that our society is going to run for a really long time. It's not just like in this moment. It's going to have impact for generations to come. And that's really hard for me to swallow. I mean, the Supreme Court literally ruled that ICE can take somebody just off the streets for just speaking Spanish or looking like they could speak Spanish. People think I'm being overdramatic by carrying my passport around. I'm not being overdramatic. I'm just not.
It's happening to people. And I think that that's really hard for me too. And I really, instead of fighting, because I used to be a keyboard warrior, and I used to be yelling all the time. And that's exhausting and draining. And to who? Like you said, they're not willing to listen. So I'm just yelling to an empty void. As a brown woman, how do you feel about
black and brown people with platforms not speaking up about this um it's convoluted because especially if we're talking about black people and black women specifically like they need a rest like i don't think it's their job right now to be advocating or educating because they did and look at what keeps happening like they're the ones who showed up at the polls at like
ja valitseminen, mielestÀni, olisi hyödyllistÀ muiden naisille, muiden ihmisille ja yhteiskunnalle. Joten luulen, ettÀ heidÀn pitÀisi pysyÀ huolta. Ja myös siksi, ettÀ kuten sanoin, se on todella vaarallista. MeillÀ on sydÀntÀ. Se voi olla vaarallista, erityisesti jos olet rauhassa. Voin ymmÀrtÀÀ, miksi ihmiset eivÀt, mutta se tuntuu minulle todella epÀloitavalta. Se on todella vaarallista minulle. MinÀ kÀsittelen siitÀ, mutta minÀ ymmÀrrÀn, miksi ihmiset eivÀt. MinÀ ymmÀrrÀn. Mutta minÀ luulen, ettÀ jos sinÀ et ole edellinen vaarassa tai...
I can't expect you to speak up because there is a risk there. But I also think that people, I don't know, like I don't know what it is. I go back and forth because I do think like with a platform comes privilege and I think people should use their privilege to help others like just in general, like in the broad sense of the word. And then when it comes to white people talking about things that they feel like they shouldn't.
Itse asiassa teillÀ on enemmÀn voimaa, koska vanhemmat ovat parempia kuulemaan vanhemmista. TiedÀt, mitÀ tarkoitan? Mutta olen myös iso suosittelija siitÀ, ettei puhuta asioista, joita et tiedÀ. Jos tuntuu, ettÀ puhutaan jotain, joka on enemmÀn vaikeaa kuin hyvÀ, koska et ole tarpeeksi opettunut, ettei sinulla ole tarpeeksi tietoa, jotta ihmiset voivat olla opettuneita.
I really don't think people should talk because that also causes issues with a ton of misinformation that's constantly spread. And that rhetoric can also be dangerous too. So it's complicated. I don't think there is one right answer, but I do feel like if you have a platform, you should at some, I should know.
minun tukeminen siitÀ, mitÀ he uskallavat, vaikka et puhu sitÀ suoraan. Ei tarvitse protestoida, ei tarvitse rauhoittaa, ei tarvitse puhua siitÀ koko ajan. Mutta minun pitÀisi pystyÀ kertomaan teidÀn sisÀllÀnne tai jotain, mitÀ olette sanoneet, ettÀ tÀmÀ on turvallinen paikka minulle, ja ettÀ minÀ keskityn ihmisiin online ja tukeminen heitÀ ja laittamiseen rahoja, joita minÀ yhdistÀn. MinÀ uskon siitÀ. Ja ihmiset eivÀt puhu siitÀ, koska on rahaa.
And when you say putting money in their pocket, you mean like TikTok views or something like that? Using their affiliate links. Like if I support somebody on social media, I'm using all of their LTK links. I'm using anything that you put on there. If you've got a sponsorship, I'm going to the link. I'm saving the post. I'm sending it to somebody. I'm interacting. That puts money in people's pockets. If you think that people that look like me should be ripped from their family, if you are racist or homophobic or any of those things, why would I want to support you financially in that way? But what you're saying is that
Toisistaan kuin suurin piirtein, se ei ole suurin piirtein. Jos sinulla ei ole mielipiteitÀ, jotka liittyvÀt minulle, ihmiset ajattelevat, ettÀ jos puhut heidÀn kanssaan, ettei sinulla ole ratkaisuja, ettei sinulla menetÀ mahdollisuuksia. Ihmiset ovat negatiivisia asioita sanoa sinulle, mikÀ on totta kai molemmilla puolilla. Mutta luulen, ettÀ sinulla on paljon rauhaa puhua, ettÀ olet oikeassa tai konservatiivisempi tai kaikki nÀmÀ asiat. Ja luulen, ettÀ ihmiset eivÀt sanoa sitÀ syystÀ, koska luulen, ettÀ se vaikuttaa heidÀn pakkoonsa.
And that's hard for me because everybody needs to eat. I understand that. But not all money is good money. I really believe that. And I personally think that money is like an energy. Do you know what I mean? And if it's coming from a bad way or because I'm not talking about something, I don't want it. But that's where it gets complicated with being connected to the other shows and other people in this space. Because if you guys aren't taking the risk,
Why should I put you guys at risk for potentially losing sponsors or things like that? Because like, for example, in the podcast, we're all a circle. My show's super small. It's all the way at the bottom. But there could be a trickle down effect where if I lose a sponsorship on my show, you guys could lose it because they sell us as a package sometimes. Do you know what I mean? And I don't want to, that's not fair. I don't want to risk that. So there are, there's so many reasons. And I really, like the older I get, it's really hard for me, but not everything is black and white. I'm going to sneeze. You're fine. That's it.
I have no business speaking on that, but I definitely don't agree with it. Yeah. And that's what's difficult, too, because there's so many intricacies and nuances to that. I don't even know necessarily deeply what that means. But overall, I mean, defunding, it's any overreach of what can be taught in schools and things like that is a slippery slope, because education and knowledge is power. And so to me, if you want to control a populace, you're going to control their education. And it makes sense that that's what they're going for.
I mean, we already have an abysmal education system in America. They also just are trying to make it so that certain titles are no longer considered professional titles. And it's all careers that mostly women are in. It was like all these jobs that would be no longer recognized as professional. And I was like, what the fuck does that even mean? What does it mean that they're no longer considered professional?
He lÀhtevÀt ja meillÀ on vielÀ suurempi rajoitus, koska he saavat enemmÀn rajoituksia. Ja kuulin myös, ettÀ lapset ovat huonoja. 90% kautta he vain yrittÀvÀt hoitaa lapsia, eikÀ oikeastaan opettaa. Minulla on ollut lapsia, joilla on niin monia rajoituksia, ettÀ he eivÀt edes pÀÀse katsomaan koulussa. 90% kautta he eivÀt edes pÀÀse katsomaan koulussa. Ja se on haastavaa, jos olet oikeastaan siellÀ oppimisessa.
Olemme myös yksilöitÀ, joten yritÀn kÀyttÀÀ sitÀ myös itseÀni. MeidÀn tÀytyy kuitenkin pysyÀ koulutettavissa ja koulutettavissa, eikÀ se ole olemassa. Mutta ajattelen myös, ettÀ on todella vaikeaa tÀllÀ hetkellÀ olla tasapainossa, koska se tuntuu niin, ettÀ kaikki, mitÀ tulee, on negatiivista. Vaikka yritÀn vÀhentÀÀ sitÀ, mitÀ otan sisÀlle,
mitÀ minÀ otan takaisin on negatiivinen. Se on se, miksi luulen 10-12 kirjoja kuukaudessa. NÀin sinut. NÀin sinut Goodreadsissa. Ei Goodreadsissa, sinÀ postit jotain. MinÀ mÀÀrittelin, ettÀ minun pitÀisi tehdÀ toisen kuvan. MinÀ mÀÀrittelin, ettÀ minulla oli 11-12 kirjoja. MinÀ ajattelin, ettÀ ihanaa. Ja se on siksi, ettÀ kun minulla ei ole mitÀÀn huolimatta, en tehdÀ mitÀÀn muuta. Viimeinen show, jonka katsoin, oli Hunting Wives. MinÀ en katso TV. MinÀ yritÀn etsiÀ.
Niin se on, mutta olen myös ostamassa ruokaa joka viikon. Ja sitten olen tekemÀssÀ nÀmÀ hallit, menen kirjoittamaan 12 kirjoja ja ajattelen itseÀni, ettÀ kirjoitatko 3-4 viikossa? Se ei ole niin, ettÀ pidÀn niitÀ ja en kirjoita niitÀ. Minulla on yli puoli kappaletta, jotka eivÀt ole kirjoittaneet, mutta tiedÀt, mitÀ ajattelen. Oletko kirjoittaja? KyllÀ.