Alex Hourigan

How funny is that?

Oh, my God.

So she says fuckboys often act the way they do because that's the behavior that was modeled to them from their parents or other trusted adults.

She also says the hot and cold behavior can represent a desire to be close with someone but an inability to know how to effectively let emotional barriers down or a particular discomfort with feeling vulnerable, right?

And then she also says that many fuckboys fall into the anxious avoidant attachment style.

Yeah, like standoffish at first but then you can push through like the hardened exterior maybe to get into a soft gooey center potentially.

Yeah.

That's a tricky one.

I think you need to ask yourself, what do you like about this person?

Yeah.

Is it his personality?

Is it the connection that you have?

Is it the sex and the intimacy?

No, I hate that.

Oh, my God.

That is so fucking shit.

As, like, a words of affirmation slash every love language girly, that would really, really hurt me.

But I'm also, like...

There would be some people out there who that would be enough for them.

Like there would be some person out there who would be like, I show my partner that I love them.