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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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Hey, chicks, I'm Sal. And I'm Al. And this is Two Broke Chicks, the show that shares life lessons and tips to help make you rich in life. And we are back for one of our absolute favourite episodes of the month, Chicks Chat, advice with the chicks. We asked you chickies to send in your dilemmas.
But with a twist.
With a twist.
Yes. So we asked you to send your dilemmas that could literally be in a book or a movie or a television show. We wanted the josey-josey.
Yeah, we want like the book tropes but in real life. Yeah, I'm like they had to come from somewhere.
But yeah, I'm really excited to get into these. Should we just jump straight in? Yeah, let's do it. Okay, hit me with your best shot.
Okay, dilemma number one. Oh, I slept with a notorious fuckboy.
Yes, this is what I wanted.
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Chapter 2: Can f*ck boys actually change?
Yeah. What's your first thought? What's your first response? My first thought was that you can't develop feelings when like you're not being yourself. So it's like you can't kind of base what would be on the current situation because you're like, not to say that she's not being herself, but it's like not how you would act if you were, like you're purposely being aloof.
She's purposely like playing hard to get, if you will.
You've put a wall up that could stop any real kind of connection happening.
Yeah, and kind of manipulated the situation into so that he's, like, foaming at the mouth for you, which is like... Tension is palpable. But I also completely understand her thing of, like, what happens if I bring the wool down and I get feelings for him and then that means he's no longer interested. I kind of think, well, thank God you dodged a bullet then.
Like, if that's, like, if he's only interested because you're playing hard to get and the second you stop playing... hard to get I know that's like not exactly the right term of phrase because that's not all what you're doing you're just like keeping a distance and not being like wow obsessed yeah um but yeah you never know what it's going to be but if the second you actually open up and
want to get to know him and spend time with him that he goes, oh, well, this isn't worth it anymore, then, like, thank goodness you found out early.
Yeah, yeah. It's like maybe you could let the wall down ever so slightly. But not the whole way.
Not the whole way.
Because then that's not fun, is it? Yeah. And like go on the date and see how he behaves and treats you and if he shows any red flags of like continuing to be a fuckboy or it's like, all right, well, I've got what I want. Now I'm not interested. Then you know like, all right, well, let's really wrap it up, right? It's definitely. What did she say at the start about the sex?
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Chapter 3: How to navigate feelings for a f*ck boy?
Okay, next one. I've been dating my partner for seven years and he never says I love you. What? He says he doesn't need to because it's a given even though I say I'd like to hear it. No, I'm laughing because Sal's shaking her head, not because I think this is funny.
When I say it to him, he doesn't say it back I've only heard it from him in the first year or so of our relationship At what point do I start to think that he actually just doesn't love me?
No, I hate that. Oh, my God. That is so fucking shit. As, like, a words of affirmation slash every love language girly, that would really, really hurt me. But I'm also, like... There would be some people out there who that would be enough for them. Like there would be some person out there who would be like, I show my partner that I love them.
I don't need to say it all the time. Yeah. But I just, my counter to that is like, but you don't have to need to say it. It's because you want to. It's because you want to. Yeah. And I think it doesn't matter if you say I love you once a day, once like 10 times a day. It's the fact that that's just what you want to say.
Like it doesn't make it mean any less if you say it once a year or a thousand times a day, which is the minimum for me really. I dated a guy that really didn't say I love you that often and at the time I like brainwashed myself into thinking, oh no, it's just because like when he says it, he really means it. And I'm like, but shouldn't you really mean it all the time?
And, like, maybe I'm just needy for that. But it's like maybe, maybe. But it's like, okay, then lock me up. Like I want to hear my partner say. I love you every day. Whenever Rob and I are, like, going to bed, I always go to bed and I go, like, I love you. And he says it back, like... Yeah.
I'm a firm believer that, like, every time you say goodbye to somebody that you care about, you should say I love you to them.
Yeah. We say I love you all the time to each other. And it doesn't mean... It doesn't make it any less in those moments that, you know, we've had really like – I love that it's about you and me now.
Like when we've had like really special moments, like maybe we were watching the fireworks at Disneyland or we just did our first live show and we have those moments and I'm like, I'm so proud of you. I love you. Yeah. Like that – Like you just know in those moments that in that moment it's really like a... Yeah. Let me crawl inside your skin. Yeah, normal stuff. Yeah, obviously. Yeah.
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Chapter 4: Can a relationship with a f*ck boy work out?
Yeah. Let's end it there. Thanks, chicks. Okay. I've been seeing this guy for three months and objectively he is the full package. Tall, ridiculously attractive, works in architecture, sends me text me when you get home messages. Yes. Remembers tiny details about me and somehow smells expensive 24-7. So she found a unicorn. Holy shit. What the fuck? What's the problem?
Yeah, like genuinely one of the nicest men I've ever met. What's the problem?
Here we go. The problem. Oh, God, he's got a sixth toe. He wears sockets when they have sex. What is it?
He calls his mum mummy.
Oh, he kisses his mum on the lips.
The problem, we could not be more different. Oh, so you smell like shit?
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding. I'm chaotic, loud, always late, impulsive, and think booking a flight 12 hours before takeoff counts as planning. Did I write this? Yeah, shit. I'm like, oh. He wakes up at 6 a.m. to go to the gym, owns matching Tupperware, and once said, we can circle back on that during a tiff. Okay. Our first date lasted six hours because the chemistry was insane.
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