Alexandra

Okay.

So my question is, how can I talk to my husband about my...

interest in doing the kinky stuff we used to do kind of fading away and me being no longer interested in that kind of thing as much anymore.

So we've been together for two years and married for a year and a half.

Yeah.

I mean, it's been for the past, maybe

I don't know, four to six months.

I just haven't really wanted to do the crazy stuff as much at all.

So it's still there.

I still am interested.

I just, I feel like exhausted by the...

the asterisk of it all where it's like, it always seems like, you know, the next newest and crazy wild thing.

And what else can we bring in?

And like, let's talk the last thing we did.

And I'm so happy that he comes to me with his ideas and I want him to continue doing, I don't want him to feel shut down or like, I don't want him at all anymore.

Cause that's not the case.

I just don't want all the frills.

I, and,

I don't want, you know, I'm okay with something a little more vanilla more of the time.

And it's just getting to the point where I feel like now I, I don't know, I'm avoiding sex because I, you know, it's stressful now.