Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

So when people message a friend who hasn't been like, you never this and you never that.

Oh, I'm so tempted to reply now.

I'm so tempted to.

So don't do that.

Do not dig yourself into a fucking hole.

What you're going to do is you're going to ask yourself, do I feel bad because I actually miss them and I really value these people in my life and I'm going to put in the effort to try and get them back into my life?

One last big effort to be like, let's resurrect this friendship.

I fucking love you guys and I miss you and I value you.

Is it that or is it how dare these people ignore me?

I have this, I have that.

How is it coming from a place of anger and frustration?

You're pissed off at them.

Because you might be annoyed at the fact that they didn't invite you, whatever.

But overall, is the overall theme, I'm angry and annoyed?

Or is the overall theme, yes, I'm annoyed, but maybe there were reasons and I really, really miss them and I really want the back of my life.

Because if it's this, I'm just angry and annoyed and I want to have the last say, don't message them.

If it's because you miss them and you see a future with potentially having the back in your life, message them and say, guys, long time no speak.

I feel like the dynamic has massively changed since we moved out.

I really felt close with you guys and I thought that this is a friendship that would last beyond us moving out from living in the same place.

I feel like that might not be reciprocated.