Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Okay.

So I know what you're going through.

And I know that it's like that abandonment pain when you have no answers physically hurts your fucking soul.

It's horrible.

And I hate that you're going through that because it's not only they've left you but it's this lack of understanding.

It's a lack of communication and it's like I don't even – it feels like I don't even bother to try and fix this with you or try and change it.

It feels like you're being tossed to the curb and it's just fucked.

And I was actually talking to a friend of mine literally yesterday who had gone through the exact same thing again.

There's like this weird population of fucking clowns out there that are ending relationships in this way.

Okay.

What I am going to say to you is.

You cannot control other people.

You can't control so many things in your life.

And what I don't want you to do, which is where I wasted a lot of my time and I feel like I took so long to heal, like literally like over a year.

a year and a half probably, it was me wanting closure, wanting an answer, trying to pull it apart, trying to dissect what went wrong and why and this and that and whatever.

Don't.

Do not do that to yourself.

Because as much as you think that you know someone, sometimes we just don't.

Because you could say, oh, but I knew him so well.

But there's always a side of someone that