Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

We just got to these holidays.

I can't do that.

So then you start editing everything you say or do.

You start allowing this person to cross your boundaries again and again and again.

But mind you, they have planned this.

This is strategic.

They know what they're doing.

So when someone gives you the silent treatment and withholds communication as a way of punishment, especially because you tried to set a boundary,

Narcissist, okay?

Next one, number six.

You are just so sensitive.

It was fine before.

This is, you know, another comment that they would make.

Obviously, if you try and stand up for yourself about something or if you try and stand up for someone else, maybe they're those people that constantly say racist things or inappropriate things or laugh at people who don't deserve to be laughed at and you try and step in, then they're like, oh, so sensitive.

Oh, so like they'll just dismiss and they make you look like the biggest fucking killjoy when you are just –

being, you know, someone who actually cares about human rights, basically.

Number seven, they play the victim when you choose not to take their unsolicited advice.

They will give you advice that you probably never asked for.

And then you go and do the thing that you wanted to do and were planning on doing and probably, you know, sought out other advice for it and did that thing.

And then they're like, you know,