Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Not just you but people who are feeling this way.

so it's normal for it to be difficult i don't want you to think that because it's difficult you should try again and again and again and again it's normal for to cut someone like to separate yourself to distance themselves for that to feel difficult because you're thinking it's a sibling it should be this way it should it should it should it should it should but unfortunately it's not okay so now that we know that it's not

Every time you're about to feel bad or think that you should get closer, you've got to ask yourself, how does this impact my relationship with myself?

And is this a trade-off or is it benefiting my relationship with myself?

And number two, how do my morals and my values, you know, do they stack up with my relationship with this person?

And the answer is you already know it doesn't stack up.

It doesn't even out.

It's not aligned with your morals and your values.

And when you have that top of mind and front of mind, it is a lot easier to kind of talk yourself down off that ledge and be like, okay, this is the right decision and there is no other option really.

And when you've exhausted the other options which you have, then I think you've come to the right conclusion and you're able to feel better.

And the more time goes on, the easier it is for you to get into that mind space of being like, I have made the right decision and I can feel calm in that decision.

It doesn't have to feel fabulous.

because sometimes it's sad when relationships break down.

But just because it's sad, it doesn't mean that it has to be salvaged.

Some relationships, as sad as it is, should never be salvaged.

They need to just be left in the dirt.

Okay.

So great question.

Great question.

All right.