Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Do you think that's still possible?

Love you so much.

I'm really happy that you're happy, but I feel like it's a little bit one-sided and it's all coming from me.

Is this because you're just distracted?

Is it because you actually don't want to...

hang out with me, basically.

Okay.

And then I think by addressing it, it allows your friendship to take that next step up of that being open, being honest, being vulnerable with each other and really, you know, it lets her then be vulnerable back to you.

So there have been times where I have pulled up some of my best friends on things and because of those times and vice versa and where they've pulled me up on things as well and we've gotten closer because of it because we think, wow, they feel safe and comfortable coming to me and saying that thing.

And therefore, you know, this obviously, this relationship is really of value and of importance to that person, to my friend and vice versa.

Okay.

So if delivered properly with kindness, your friend will likely be like, yeah, fuck, you've called me out.

It's true.

It's true.

I'm so sorry.

I do miss you too.

I'm going to make more of an effort and please pull me up again if I drop the ball.

And on top of that, they're going to be like, I love that they felt that they could talk to me about that.

I'm really happy that instead of just walking away or ignoring me, they actually loved me enough to pull me up on it and give me the opportunity to correct my behavior or to correct the course.

Okay.