Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

I really, this is coming from a place of love and just missing what we have.

And I really, really would love to, you know, continue to invite you to do things, but I would love to get some invitations back from you as well.

If she responds negatively to a message like that,

then you can very peacefully say, I have my fucking answer.

That was a fucking nice adult message.

It's given her time to process so she doesn't even have to be reactive or feel cornered because she's got time to answer in her own time, right?

So if she responds negatively to that, then I'd be like...

you've got problems, babe.

I'm not the problem, okay?

But I can guarantee you, well, it's not a guarantee, that's a lie, but there's a very big chance that she will read that and miss you and say, oh, babe, I'm so sorry.

Like, thank you for being understanding.

Thank you for being so patient.

I miss you too.

I'm going to try a bit harder.

Like, if you approach it in a way coming from like understanding

I'm not going to be angry.

I'm not going to be pointing fingers.

I'm not going to be throwing daggers.

I just want to let you know that I miss you.

I want more of what we used to have.