Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

So start saying, hey babe, I really am denied about writing this text message because I value our friendship so much and this is only coming from a place of just adoring what we have as friendships and not wanting to lose it.

So be mindful as you read this.

So I would launch it like that.

And then I would say,

And genuinely, I love that you're in a relationship.

I love that you're in love.

It makes me like, nothing makes me happier than seeing my friends happy.

But I've noticed that I'm the only one reaching out to you.

I'm the only one inviting you to do things.

And I also don't want to feel like too demanding in the friendship, but it has been.

And then you give the timeframe.

It has been four months, five months, however long.

And I'm starting to feel like maybe you're not interested in seeing me as much as I want to see you.

Um, I do want, and then you can say something along the lines of, I do want to give grace to the fact, like give you a bit of a grace period, you know, and allow you to live out this honeymoon period in your relationship.

But it does make me a little bit sad.

And I really do miss hearing from you and having invitations from you.

And, and I just, I miss what we used to have.

And I know that after when someone gets into a relationship, it's not going to be exactly the same

but I really hope that things don't drift and change too much.

I hope you're open to hearing what I have to say.