Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

I can, you know, pay for certain things that are going to make me look better, which is fine.

I'm all for that.

Go for gold.

I will actually not since before I was pregnant, but I, you know, would get Botox here and there.

I'm like, fucking go nuts if that's what you want.

But that's not what you're getting your value from.

That's the important thing.

If you want to do it because you're like, oh, I do want to look nice.

I like looking a certain way.

I enjoy this aesthetic.

Do it.

But when it comes down to how do I feel about myself when no one else is around, I hope that you're able to be like, I've earned being a good person in this world.

I feel like I've earned these things.

I have shown up for myself.

I like my own company when I'm alone, right?

No matter how fucking hot you are, that's not going to influence you liking your company when you're alone.

So when we start looking at coping with appearance changes, the more you like who you are,

The appearance change is not going to be so painful, okay?

You might say, oh, God, yeah, like, okay, I'm, you know, looking this way.

I preferred how I looked when I was younger.