Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

I'm the only one inviting you to do things.

And I also don't want to feel like too demanding in the friendship, but it has been.

And then you give the timeframe.

It has been four months, five months, however long.

And I'm starting to feel like maybe you're not interested in seeing me as much as I want to see you.

Um, I do want, and then you can say something along the lines of, I do want to give grace to the fact, like give you a bit of a grace period, you know, and allow you to live out this honeymoon period in your relationship.

But it does make me a little bit sad.

And I really do miss hearing from you and having invitations from you.

And, and I just, I miss what we used to have.

And I know that after when someone gets into a relationship, it's not going to be exactly the same

but I really hope that things don't drift and change too much.

I hope you're open to hearing what I have to say.

I really, this is coming from a place of love and just missing what we have.

And I really, really would love to, you know, continue to invite you to do things, but I would love to get some invitations back from you as well.

If she responds negatively to a message like that,

then you can very peacefully say, I have my fucking answer.

That was a fucking nice adult message.

It's given her time to process so she doesn't even have to be reactive or feel cornered because she's got time to answer in her own time, right?

So if she responds negatively to that, then I'd be like...

you've got problems, babe.