Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

So there have been times where I have pulled up some of my best friends on things and because of those times and vice versa and where they've pulled me up on things as well and we've gotten closer because of it because we think, wow, they feel safe and comfortable coming to me and saying that thing.

And therefore, you know, this obviously, this relationship is really of value and of importance to that person, to my friend and vice versa.

Okay.

So if delivered properly with kindness, your friend will likely be like, yeah, fuck, you've called me out.

It's true.

It's true.

I'm so sorry.

I do miss you too.

I'm going to make more of an effort and please pull me up again if I drop the ball.

And on top of that, they're going to be like, I love that they felt that they could talk to me about that.

I'm really happy that instead of just walking away or ignoring me, they actually loved me enough to pull me up on it and give me the opportunity to correct my behavior or to correct the course.

Okay.

So I really hope that helped.

I really hope you do send her this message and reach out because other than this crazy distraction in the honeymoon phase,

um it seems like it's a great friendship so it would be really sad to let it go I think people are too quick to cut off other people and not saying that you would cut her off but people are too quick to be like well no so I'm glad you wrote in because it's obviously not what you want to do and I think that relationships really do require give and take okay so as long as people aren't

actively trying to hurt you or whatever, this is where you can allow for, you know, mistakes to be made and for repair to happen.

So hopefully that helped.

Hopefully you can use that, use as many of my sentences if they, if you're like, oh yeah, that aligns with something I would say, just fucking copy it verbatim.

I should write like templates on, oh my God, I should do templates on my website of like how to start a text message.

Here's a