Alexis Ohanian
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And that, again, is the priority. I think it'll shift again when I've got teenagers and they no longer want to hang out with me. But almost all of us have kids that are young. And we get it. We'll bring the gang together. But we live in different places and it is what it is. And then candidly, one of our guys, Adam, suddenly had a heart attack. And he was training.
And that, again, is the priority. I think it'll shift again when I've got teenagers and they no longer want to hang out with me. But almost all of us have kids that are young. And we get it. We'll bring the gang together. But we live in different places and it is what it is. And then candidly, one of our guys, Adam, suddenly had a heart attack. And he was training.
He was the most fit out of all of us. He was at the gym. His heart gave out. And he passed on the way to the hospital. Oh, my gosh. And then again, you get that fucking phone call. And you're just like, no, this is a joke. Like, there's no way. No chance. No chance. And... That was a wake-up call for me. And he didn't have children, but we're all looking around each other at the funeral.
He was the most fit out of all of us. He was at the gym. His heart gave out. And he passed on the way to the hospital. Oh, my gosh. And then again, you get that fucking phone call. And you're just like, no, this is a joke. Like, there's no way. No chance. No chance. And... That was a wake-up call for me. And he didn't have children, but we're all looking around each other at the funeral.
And again, a lot of us with kids just thinking like, Christ, we have to show up in such a big way for these little humans. And you can't help but take it to that selfish place, right? And be like, I deeply miss this guy. And
And again, a lot of us with kids just thinking like, Christ, we have to show up in such a big way for these little humans. And you can't help but take it to that selfish place, right? And be like, I deeply miss this guy. And
feel like i owe it to him like i said he was the most fit of all of us this dude crossfitting i mean and adam was to his credit to man the guy always was down it did not matter what it could have been let's just go see a dumb movie on a tuesday night he always, always was a strong yes.
feel like i owe it to him like i said he was the most fit of all of us this dude crossfitting i mean and adam was to his credit to man the guy always was down it did not matter what it could have been let's just go see a dumb movie on a tuesday night he always, always was a strong yes.
And that mindset, and this is something I always try to take, and I've tried to tell founders this too, like, it's not my quote, but it's the one about the average of your five closest friends. And, and I think a lot about this because like, you know, my, these guys, we've all had very different lives.
And that mindset, and this is something I always try to take, and I've tried to tell founders this too, like, it's not my quote, but it's the one about the average of your five closest friends. And, and I think a lot about this because like, you know, my, these guys, we've all had very different lives.
There are, I don't know if I'd start a company with any of these guys, but there are attributes about each one of them that I find really remarkable. And Those are the things that I keep in mind when I'm like, one of the reasons I love staying close to you guys is I care about you. I love you. Like we've known each other through so much. We've done a lot together.
There are, I don't know if I'd start a company with any of these guys, but there are attributes about each one of them that I find really remarkable. And Those are the things that I keep in mind when I'm like, one of the reasons I love staying close to you guys is I care about you. I love you. Like we've known each other through so much. We've done a lot together.
We've experienced so fucking much. And there are still parts of you that just make me want to get better. And for Adam, it was the relentless commitment to his health and fitness. And I just, I couldn't help but think, God, I really got to get my life right.
We've experienced so fucking much. And there are still parts of you that just make me want to get better. And for Adam, it was the relentless commitment to his health and fitness. And I just, I couldn't help but think, God, I really got to get my life right.
and i started with the whole battery of tests and like i'm getting blood work ct scan doing all the heart like everything i can now and really rigorously i'm not not a hypochondriac but i'm like i need to get some baselines i need to be checking up on this i need to actually be like making like thoughtful visits to the doctor fairly regularly.
and i started with the whole battery of tests and like i'm getting blood work ct scan doing all the heart like everything i can now and really rigorously i'm not not a hypochondriac but i'm like i need to get some baselines i need to be checking up on this i need to actually be like making like thoughtful visits to the doctor fairly regularly.
Cause I, and as a dude, you're just like, whatever you're, the culture's put some dirt on it and you're fine. And like, that's how I lived for 40 years. And, and that was the wake up call. And I feel like I owe it to him. And so when I get up in the morning and you know, I'm like, okay, drag my ass to the gym. I'm like, come on, show up, keep going, man. Like do it for Adam.
Cause I, and as a dude, you're just like, whatever you're, the culture's put some dirt on it and you're fine. And like, that's how I lived for 40 years. And, and that was the wake up call. And I feel like I owe it to him. And so when I get up in the morning and you know, I'm like, okay, drag my ass to the gym. I'm like, come on, show up, keep going, man. Like do it for Adam.
It's a thing where like,
It's a thing where like,