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Alison Cheperdak

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619 total appearances

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Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

someone with them and they're not seeing anyone so it's like they have to go through this effort to find someone right so that kind of thing could be worse yeah so i think there's a lot of factors to consider also is this a destination wedding and you're expecting them to travel all by themselves without a date so that's a factor too but it's a tricky one.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

someone with them and they're not seeing anyone so it's like they have to go through this effort to find someone right so that kind of thing could be worse yeah so i think there's a lot of factors to consider also is this a destination wedding and you're expecting them to travel all by themselves without a date so that's a factor too but it's a tricky one.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

someone with them and they're not seeing anyone so it's like they have to go through this effort to find someone right so that kind of thing could be worse yeah so i think there's a lot of factors to consider also is this a destination wedding and you're expecting them to travel all by themselves without a date so that's a factor too but it's a tricky one.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Right. Like if you're, let's say you're inviting like two tables of college friends and they all know each other. Then they don't need a plus one. They don't need a plus one. But if you're inviting like a mentor who doesn't know anybody and they're maybe not in a relationship, give them a plus one. Right. If they want. Yeah. And then it's up to them. Give them the option.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Right. Like if you're, let's say you're inviting like two tables of college friends and they all know each other. Then they don't need a plus one. They don't need a plus one. But if you're inviting like a mentor who doesn't know anybody and they're maybe not in a relationship, give them a plus one. Right. If they want. Yeah. And then it's up to them. Give them the option.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Right. Like if you're, let's say you're inviting like two tables of college friends and they all know each other. Then they don't need a plus one. They don't need a plus one. But if you're inviting like a mentor who doesn't know anybody and they're maybe not in a relationship, give them a plus one. Right. If they want. Yeah. And then it's up to them. Give them the option.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

But very, very traditionally, if your budget allowed, everyone who's 18 and older would be accepted. That's interesting.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

But very, very traditionally, if your budget allowed, everyone who's 18 and older would be accepted. That's interesting.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

But very, very traditionally, if your budget allowed, everyone who's 18 and older would be accepted. That's interesting.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Because people look back at their wedding albums and they want to be able to recognize everyone. They don't even know the people. Exactly. And they want to feel like these people are still in our lives years and years later. And it's like, oh, this was this person that my girlfriend was dating for a hot second. For five seconds.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Because people look back at their wedding albums and they want to be able to recognize everyone. They don't even know the people. Exactly. And they want to feel like these people are still in our lives years and years later. And it's like, oh, this was this person that my girlfriend was dating for a hot second. For five seconds.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Because people look back at their wedding albums and they want to be able to recognize everyone. They don't even know the people. Exactly. And they want to feel like these people are still in our lives years and years later. And it's like, oh, this was this person that my girlfriend was dating for a hot second. For five seconds.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

No question about that.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

No question about that.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

No question about that.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

So it depends on the event. In general, flowers are a lovely gift. But if it's something that, let's say the decor is already really dialed in and they already have flowers arranged for the event, then it's probably not the moment to bring flowers that day.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

So it depends on the event. In general, flowers are a lovely gift. But if it's something that, let's say the decor is already really dialed in and they already have flowers arranged for the event, then it's probably not the moment to bring flowers that day.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

So it depends on the event. In general, flowers are a lovely gift. But if it's something that, let's say the decor is already really dialed in and they already have flowers arranged for the event, then it's probably not the moment to bring flowers that day.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Even if it is an event where it would be appropriate to give flowers, like it's a small dinner party, they'll have a centerpiece, but they can put something on an end table or a counter or something like that. Bring flowers, but make sure that they're already in water because if you don't do that, then they're looking for a boss.

Excuse My Grandma
Excuse My Grandma's Guide to Etiquette

Even if it is an event where it would be appropriate to give flowers, like it's a small dinner party, they'll have a centerpiece, but they can put something on an end table or a counter or something like that. Bring flowers, but make sure that they're already in water because if you don't do that, then they're looking for a boss.