Alison Wood Brooks

And that would become very meaningful. So open-ended questions are an amazing tool for that. The best open-ended questions often start with the word what. Why questions can feel a bit accusatory. So like, why did you do an episode about neurodivergence can feel a bit accusatory as opposed to what were the things you learned the most about that from that episode?

And that would become very meaningful. So open-ended questions are an amazing tool for that. The best open-ended questions often start with the word what. Why questions can feel a bit accusatory. So like, why did you do an episode about neurodivergence can feel a bit accusatory as opposed to what were the things you learned the most about that from that episode?

And that would become very meaningful. So open-ended questions are an amazing tool for that. The best open-ended questions often start with the word what. Why questions can feel a bit accusatory. So like, why did you do an episode about neurodivergence can feel a bit accusatory as opposed to what were the things you learned the most about that from that episode?

feels less threatening, and extracts more information. So follow-up questions and open-ended questions that start with the word what are very good ideas. Do more of them in our conversations. Moving to levity.

feels less threatening, and extracts more information. So follow-up questions and open-ended questions that start with the word what are very good ideas. Do more of them in our conversations. Moving to levity.

feels less threatening, and extracts more information. So follow-up questions and open-ended questions that start with the word what are very good ideas. Do more of them in our conversations. Moving to levity.

Please, yes.

Please, yes.

Please, yes.

Sure. Yeah, when you start to get into the idea of, hey, it's better to ask more questions, a very natural follow-up question is, well, is there a tipping point? When does lots of questions become too many questions? When does it get annoying or feel interrogative or intrusive? And so we use the speed dating data as an example of a very cooperative context.

Sure. Yeah, when you start to get into the idea of, hey, it's better to ask more questions, a very natural follow-up question is, well, is there a tipping point? When does lots of questions become too many questions? When does it get annoying or feel interrogative or intrusive? And so we use the speed dating data as an example of a very cooperative context.

Sure. Yeah, when you start to get into the idea of, hey, it's better to ask more questions, a very natural follow-up question is, well, is there a tipping point? When does lots of questions become too many questions? When does it get annoying or feel interrogative or intrusive? And so we use the speed dating data as an example of a very cooperative context.

So speed dating is where strangers get together. They might have four or five minutes to get to know each other, and they haven't met before. In that sort of context, you have so much to learn about each other. You need to find out where they're from, what they like, where did they go to school, what are their hobbies, what are their families like?

So speed dating is where strangers get together. They might have four or five minutes to get to know each other, and they haven't met before. In that sort of context, you have so much to learn about each other. You need to find out where they're from, what they like, where did they go to school, what are their hobbies, what are their families like?

So speed dating is where strangers get together. They might have four or five minutes to get to know each other, and they haven't met before. In that sort of context, you have so much to learn about each other. You need to find out where they're from, what they like, where did they go to school, what are their hobbies, what are their families like?

There's just so much to learn about each other that we actually never see a tipping point in the number of fights. You can't possibly ask too many questions in a very cooperative way. context like speed dating. We just never see it. It just never gets annoying because you have so much to learn.

There's just so much to learn about each other that we actually never see a tipping point in the number of fights. You can't possibly ask too many questions in a very cooperative way. context like speed dating. We just never see it. It just never gets annoying because you have so much to learn.

There's just so much to learn about each other that we actually never see a tipping point in the number of fights. You can't possibly ask too many questions in a very cooperative way. context like speed dating. We just never see it. It just never gets annoying because you have so much to learn.

Now, when we start to think about more conflictual context, so let's say a negotiation or maybe a feedback meeting to someone at work, We do see instances where there is a tipping point where you can ask too many questions, where someone starts to feel defensive. There's information they don't want to share with you. Or are you going to use, why are you asking me so many questions?

Now, when we start to think about more conflictual context, so let's say a negotiation or maybe a feedback meeting to someone at work, We do see instances where there is a tipping point where you can ask too many questions, where someone starts to feel defensive. There's information they don't want to share with you. Or are you going to use, why are you asking me so many questions?