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Allegra

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
537 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So it wasn't until the 31st of May, so I believe that was a Wednesday, that I went in to the hospital by myself where they took my insurance and I said, I'd like to request a rape kit, please.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So they had to call a sexual assault nurse examiner or SANE nurse.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

This was a more metropolitan hospital.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

city that Western University was located in.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So it didn't take too long.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

But they do outsource that at this hospital and I think all the hospitals in the area.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

At that time, they had to call the police to take a police report so that there was a case number to go along with the rape kit.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I gave my statement to the police first and then went through with the rape kit.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

It was a female cop from my recollection who seemed deeply disinterested in everything I had to say, very flat affect, did not want to be there.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

But I was kind of too sad to care or read into that too much.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

She did let me know that if I wanted to open up a criminal investigation, once I opened that box, I couldn't close the lid.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

which kind of scared me and deterred me from that option, to be honest, because my family lived in a different state.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I didn't feel like I had the support and I didn't want the police digging through every aspect of my life.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And I thought that past assault with the photographer, I was worried about being believed and I was worried about that hurting my credibility because that assault was very hard to prove.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

She gave me her card and then she left.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Then the same nurse came in after the police officer left.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

We had to go through a questionnaire about what happened.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And you have that documentation.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

It's just like a series of questions.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

One that stood out to me is, did your perpetrator bathe you, wash you, clean you with anything?