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Allegra

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And I was thinking, great.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

That was one of my motivations for getting my complaint filed so quickly is I wanted it resolved before the summer semester's end.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

The majority of Greek Rowan campus would come back in August and no one would be the wiser as to what happened over the summer.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

But the fine print was could take longer than 60 days.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

My initial investigator in Title IX left the office over the course of my investigation.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So I was assigned a second investigator who was female.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

First investigator was male.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And I liked him better somehow.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

She told me that she had also experienced sexual assault in college and interacted with her Title IX office, and that's what inspired her to become an investigator.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So that really lulled me into a false sense of security because I was like, oh my gosh, this woman gets me.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And she wasn't the only one, come to find out, who thought she was this awesome feminist and was just like the biggest internalized patriarchy asshole ever.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

one could ever meet.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

That was another aspect that really hurt my feelings because I thought she was in her way showing to me that she was on my side and she just wasn't at all.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

While I was getting in touch with my school, Justin was going around

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

to all of my friends within Greek life spreading horrible rumors about me because now that I had changed my tune and wasn't fawning anymore and had cut off all communication with him and had spoken to the fraternity president, was doing my rape kit, getting things in motion, coming to terms and owning that what had happened to me was rape, he was mad.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And I think it was a case of, if she's going to take me down, I'm taking her down with me.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I think the fraternity president spoke to him and was like, hey, this is not going to happen.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

We can't have you in our fraternity.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So I think it tipped him off.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Title IX, they were the ones that suggested that I get a no contact directive.