Allegra

I didn't hold back.

I didn't mince words.

I didn't delete my fawning texts or anything like that.

I gave them everything, even the things that made me look unattractive or could have hurt my credibility.

I filed my paperwork June 3rd or June 4th.

They told me that it would take 60 days to complete.

And I was thinking, great.

That was one of my motivations for getting my complaint filed so quickly is I wanted it resolved before the summer semester's end.

The majority of Greek Rowan campus would come back in August and no one would be the wiser as to what happened over the summer.

But the fine print was could take longer than 60 days.

My initial investigator in Title IX left the office over the course of my investigation.

So I was assigned a second investigator who was female.

First investigator was male.

And I liked him better somehow.

She told me that she had also experienced sexual assault in college and interacted with her Title IX office, and that's what inspired her to become an investigator.

So that really lulled me into a false sense of security because I was like, oh my gosh, this woman gets me.

And she wasn't the only one, come to find out, who thought she was this awesome feminist and was just like the biggest internalized patriarchy asshole ever.

one could ever meet.

That was another aspect that really hurt my feelings because I thought she was in her way showing to me that she was on my side and she just wasn't at all.

While I was getting in touch with my school, Justin was going around