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And I was thinking, great.
That was one of my motivations for getting my complaint filed so quickly is I wanted it resolved before the summer semester's end.
The majority of Greek Rowan campus would come back in August and no one would be the wiser as to what happened over the summer.
But the fine print was could take longer than 60 days.
My initial investigator in Title IX left the office over the course of my investigation.
So I was assigned a second investigator who was female.
First investigator was male.
And I liked him better somehow.
She told me that she had also experienced sexual assault in college and interacted with her Title IX office, and that's what inspired her to become an investigator.
So that really lulled me into a false sense of security because I was like, oh my gosh, this woman gets me.
And she wasn't the only one, come to find out, who thought she was this awesome feminist and was just like the biggest internalized patriarchy asshole ever.
one could ever meet.
That was another aspect that really hurt my feelings because I thought she was in her way showing to me that she was on my side and she just wasn't at all.
While I was getting in touch with my school, Justin was going around
to all of my friends within Greek life spreading horrible rumors about me because now that I had changed my tune and wasn't fawning anymore and had cut off all communication with him and had spoken to the fraternity president, was doing my rape kit, getting things in motion, coming to terms and owning that what had happened to me was rape, he was mad.
And I think it was a case of, if she's going to take me down, I'm taking her down with me.
I think the fraternity president spoke to him and was like, hey, this is not going to happen.
We can't have you in our fraternity.
So I think it tipped him off.
Title IX, they were the ones that suggested that I get a no contact directive.