Allegra

It was basically like you have no recourse for what he's doing right now.

But if you get this no contact directive signed and we can get him to sign it, it'll benefit you both.

It's like the school's version of a restraining order, more like a gag order.

Yes, apparently, which is something I didn't even really consider at the time.

That's the first time that I heard the phrase due process.

If I never have to hear that phrase again, it will be too soon.

Because so much about this is packaged as due process, but it's not.

It's really like perpetrator perks, right?

He also has rights and we have to be respectful of those rights and treat you both equally.

The no contact order went into effect fairly quickly after I filed my Title IX formal complaint.

He was breaking that agreement pretty much from the moment he signed it.

After the no contact agreement was signed, he was still running around telling anyone who would listen what a crazy slut I was and why would she do this to me.

My pledge sister, he was Snapchat messaging her about what a crazy whore I was.

Users of Snapchat will know that if you screenshot something, it will notify the user, which I think is a good safety feature to have.

But she was like, well, what am I going to do?

She got a different device and took a picture of the screen of the device where her messages were on so that he did not know that screenshots were taken.

And so those were some of the pieces of evidence that I submitted in my retaliation claim.

One of the pieces of evidence that he submitted was from current members of the legacy fraternity that he was trying to get into, but was then barred from entering.

They got together and they wrote, I refer to it as the whore letter.

It was essentially a whole letter of them defaming my character and my integrity in every possible way, saying what a slut and whore I was on Greek Row, that I'd slept with or hooked up with all these guys, that I was not a credible source.