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Allegra

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
537 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I became interested in Western University because they had a great ballet program and I could receive a BFA in ballet specifically.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

That was really attractive.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Western University was far enough away that I could get some independence.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

It was not in the same state, but it was close enough that if I needed something or if an emergency happened, I could get home quickly or my family could get to me.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

How were you feeling about living away from home?

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

four weeks, five weeks, six weeks.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I had been away from home before.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And as an only child with older parents, I just felt a lot of pressure and scrutiny and focus on me all the time, which I do appreciate all the resources that went to me and all the activities that I was able to do as a result of being an only child.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

But I needed the space to develop my own sense of self a little bit more.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

not be so defined by what they wanted me to do, what they wanted me to be.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I was definitely eager to forge my own path and not be so supervised all the time.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

The girl that I roomed with was from the island of Tonga, the area of the United States that Western University is located in, is very connected to the church of Tonga.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or LDS.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

A lot of missionary work is done in Tonga and in that geographical region.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Tonga is just something I had no concept for.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Like we didn't really even do beach vacations when I was growing up.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So I was like, wow, that's really cool.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Well, I went through recruitment in the fall of 2015.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So my freshman semester, right when I came onto campus, my mom and my cousin were involved in Greek life.