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Allegra

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
537 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

If you portray yourself to be a certain way and have a couple beers with the guys and they think you're cool, then you're in.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

From what I recall, it was weird that he was a student athlete at his first university and then transferred to Western where he stopped being a student athlete before the spring semester had even ended is when we just had a couple messages back and forth.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

The messaging was very brief, and maybe a few months prior to when I actually met him, that, you know, finals and other things I was preoccupied with, he just kind of slipped my mind.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Fast forward to the end of May, which is when my assault took place.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

The only time I ever met him in person was the night that he raped me, which is so crazy to say.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Can you walk us through that night?

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I don't know how I learned that he was going to be at this party that I was going to that night.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

It was hosted by my sorority sisters.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

All of the Greek houses, sororities and fraternities at my university were all in the same geographic location.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

We had what we called satellite houses.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

That was where a bunch of people, maybe in the same place,

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

sorority or fraternity live together or multiple different sororities and fraternities live together.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And because sorority houses are not allowed to host parties, the satellite house is kind of the way around that.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So my sorority sisters, a few of them lived in this house together.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

They had a satellite party and invited all their friends in different Greek organizations, including myself and my pledge sister, who I was spending the day with.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I don't know if she brought it up, but somehow I knew that Justin was going to be at that party that we were going to that night.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And we were talking about him.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

We ended up going our separate ways to get ready and then met up back at the party.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And I...

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Saw him inside the house, maybe in like the kitchen living room area.