Allie Harding

I think in certain ways, obviously, but I don't know.

Yeah, I could see that.

I just I'm not too far one way.

I don't know.

I lead with a clear mind.

And so I'm like, I'm not going to sit here and tell anyone what they shouldn't shouldn't do and what works and what doesn't.

I'm just talking about the things that have worked for me and what I would personally like.

But I understand that my dynamic of what I would want isn't what everyone else wants either.

So I'm like, it works for me.

And I don't know, it might change.

It might not.

It definitely has over the years.

And I've learned different things about relationships that work and that don't work.

I've realized that I have to give a lot more than I thought that I did.

And so a lot more emotional things, even when I don't want to.

I believe that I give respect in a relationship regardless of how I feel.

And I don't stop giving respect until I'm out of it.

And it's hard when they point it out to you and you're like, oh my gosh.

Yeah, and I see a lot of people where they're like, oh, you're expecting me to change.

You want me to change myself.