Allie Harding

I've been giving advice since I was 20 and I had this mentality of, if he doesn't do this, this and this.

And then I started getting into relationships where I'm like, okay, but I started kind of seeing and understanding a little bit different and being open-minded about things.

And so I'm not going to throw away a relationship with someone that I really enjoy just because they don't provide financially for me when I'm perfectly fine doing it by myself.

Yeah, for sure.

And it was always like, I could make a million videos for women and then I make one in support of men.

And then they're like, well, it goes both ways.

And that's always what they say on my videos is that it goes both ways.

If I'm like, women, you have to do this in order to make men happy, then women are like, okay, but I'm not going to give them peace if they don't give me peace.

I'm like, this is not the video.

Like, this just isn't the one for you.

I don't know.

And a lot of people disagree with my videos, which I think is fine.

You know, it's either I feel like I'm not here to claim that I'm the smartest person in the world.

It's just the things that I've learned and what worked for me.

And people can disagree with me and that's fine.

And I also disagree with a lot of the stuff that I made when I was 20 and I'm still learning and evolving.

That's life, right?

Yeah.

Yeah.

And we all do, which I think is the good thing.