Allie

Get with, get a match with.

I also went to like nine dating events on top of that, speed dating mixers.

So I met a lot of people.

I got in a few like situationships, got close, but I feel like my lack of experience ended up turning people off.

And it's not something I can change, but I'm just wondering like, how do I communicate that maybe to have better luck?

Yeah, I mean, I feel like that comes up in the first few dates, especially like I on the apps I have, like I want a long term relationship.

That's who I'm matching with people who I'm hoping are

similarly minded.

So I think that comes up.

How long have you been single?

When was your last relationship?

Because that's something also I want to know about them pretty early on, to be fair, I guess.

So I think I have maybe gotten better in some ways about not coming out with like, guess what?

I've never been in a relationship, but it does feel like something I don't want to lie about either.

Oh, yeah.

And I think that's like another big part of this, too.

I mean, I don't like I've learned not also to lead with that because I feel like that also I'm not honestly sure which one it is that is making me not have luck because there were four times in the last year where I dated someone.

like kind of got in situationships, got close, and then things kind of ended out of the blue.

And I feel like it is when they kind of start to put it together, either like, I mean, you can kind of tell, I think at a certain point, I have like loose skin and stuff like that.

Or if they found old pictures of me online, or and or the lack of relationship, because I have had people explicitly say, like, that's a concern for me.