Allie

And maybe that's just the reason they're giving me to you because they don't want to be a dick and say something about weight loss.

Friends, boyfriends say certain things, I think, because they want to be nice to me.

But it does feel like the weight loss is such a big thing that I'm having to fight against, which sucks because I worked so hard.

And like, I think it's made me a better person in a lot of ways going through this experience.

Well, I'm going to be a better partner.

There were.

Yeah, that's the thing I can say.

I got a lot of experience.

It was tough because I feel like I went and like even still now I'm going through things that like my friends went through at like 21, 22 and I'm 31.

So it's kind of weird.

Like even since I wrote in, I had like yet another situationship that just ended.

sunday so i've actually it's funny like now talking because i kind of resolved in the last like few days to just give up for a little bit not give up but like take a break because the juice does not seem worth the squeeze well i think after 48 dates in a year a break could be good you know a little vacation from dating yeah what did you i mean i'm curious what what what are some experiences that you learn from

I'm actually curious how you would react to this.

One of my major takeaways is that I feel like men don't think as much about what they do or say.

And women overthink.

Like to me, there were moments where someone would say something or like do something.

If it was like kissing my forehead, like gazing into my eyes, like saying how much fun they're having and how much they care about me.

And I would take that as, oh, this is good.

They're into me like this is going somewhere.

And so when it ended, I would be like really upset over it.