Allie

Yeah, no, that is a good point.

And I think it kind of gets at maybe what's underneath all of these things.

I think with dating, because there are judgmental people, I feel like maybe my mindset or the way I'm showing up is that, okay, I feel like I have all these things working against me.

I'm a virgin.

I don't have relationship experience.

I used to look a lot different a few years ago and went through weight loss and have loose skin.

And so I feel like I'm always on the defensive with that.

And maybe that's coming back.

Yeah.

Across.

Yeah.

I mean, cause it's kind of a dead giveaway.

One of these, like one of the most meaningful connections I have was I think actually technically love bombing by him.

But I remember like early on, he like said something and he's like, Oh, and like your weight loss.

And I hadn't brought it up yet.

And I was like, what do you like?

how do you know about that?

And he was like, well, your skin, like, which like fair, it is like obvious.

And I am getting a skin removal surgery, like next month.

So that like, I mean, it won't take care of everything, but it'll take care of like a good portion of it.