Allison

And he did.

He did agree to that.

So I'm like, you brought another baby onto this earth.

You could have really said, no, you let it happen.

And so my sympathy is dwindling down.

mm-hmm and he's he's he's learning how to say no but it's really new like as much as fresh as the point of him moving out that's how new it is because she's gotten everything she's wanted out of him and she continues to and it's because of his kids like what is he gonna say no i'm not paying your rent of course he's gonna pay whatever he has to for his children

Probably should not be dating.

And I think I'm just gonna lay that down like until you're legally divorced until it's on paper.

He still has a wife like she still has a tattoo on her ring finger.

She still thinks that they're have a chance of getting back together.

Like I just need to remove myself I think.

Yeah, and that's exactly what it is.

I think just being involved with a man that was emotionally mature, access something in me.

And I was actually trying to be mature in a relationship for the first time, I guess.

And that's why it feels hard to give up because I was trying so hard.

Like I put my big adult foot forward and I was trying to be proper in this relationship.

But it feels like I can't fight this one.

Where do I find them?

Do I have to build my own?

It's not that bad, but there's always something.