Allison

And I'm, I'm worried that I have just dug myself in too deep and I'm like, should I get out now?

okay how old is your partner um how many kids does he have and like set the stage give me the landscape okay so he is 35 years old he has two kids they are six and three and i'll give you a little bit of a backstory between their relationship so him and his ex well they're legally still married actually we'll touch on that hate that hate that

Exactly.

So we'll just start there.

So already a rough go.

But when she got pregnant the first time, they were actually just hooking up and there was really no feelings involved.

But she actually now I think about this, it's quite funny.

She's quite a religious girl and she got pregnant and she was like, I am keeping the baby and I'm going to move back to my country.

And so he was like, OK, I guess I only have one choice.

I have to marry her.

He married her, he raised the baby.

And then two years later, he's like, she's like, I'm having another kid.

And he really honestly is a complete pushover for her.

And she got her way and she got a second baby.

Oh, completely.

He, she couldn't pay her rent the last two months and he had to pay her rent.

That's exactly, that's my testimony.

That's all I got.

We've been dating for three months.

It's really early.