Allison

No, no, no.

Gosh, no.

I made sure he left his own house first.

And I was just like, this is too early.

You know, I should not be having this much animosity towards this man.

Yeah, it's not.

And she knows.

I want to respect him for the things he's doing.

you know you don't want to be already thinking that no and the hard thing is i i do respect him for like the decisions and choices he's made owning up to it you know those are his kids that is still his legal obligation with her so he's doing what he has to do but i definitely do think he's a pushover for her and that's not a good what conversations you had with him about this

Actually, so when I sent this email in, we're probably at the four month mark now, but it was about two and a half months when I sent this email in and we have actually gone through some like triumphs because I got to the point where I didn't feel like a priority.

Triumphs.

triumphs good in a good way okay yeah in a good way but also trials like we went through we went to trial and error let's just say so like we had a lot of conversations and that made like that made me feel really good because he was communicating with me and trying to make me feel like a priority but i just you can't really feel like a priority when he has two kids under the age of six and he still has this obligation so i kind of put myself down to the bottom of the list and then i realized i was settling for less than i deserved and so we started having some more

intense conversations and then he just got super overwhelmed and he hasn't been communicating with me about what's going on on her end and she is in his ear all day every day and making things very difficult she's telling the kids to say things to him and stuff about mommy and daddy getting back together

The kids call him and say, like, I want to see you right now when she knows we're together.

Like, she just tries to pull these strings and it's made him completely back away.

And then therefore, I've honestly got a little emotionally numb to it because I'm just like, what am I doing here?

I think that he was probably looking for something casual and didn't expect to meet someone.

They were separated?

They were separated, yeah.

Honestly, it was, it was, it was a really close timeframe.