Menu
Sign In Search Podcasts Charts People & Topics Add Podcast API Pricing

Alyssa Nobriga

๐Ÿ‘ค Person
6219 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

I don't feel it. And that's why I don't believe in the wrong person because what you're saying is everybody is mirroring to you or showing you a lesson or something to see. Okay, so then take this person that's perpetuating finding somebody that's like, I need to fix them. They don't essentially feel worthy about themselves or they learn that they need to be responsible.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

I don't feel it. And that's why I don't believe in the wrong person because what you're saying is everybody is mirroring to you or showing you a lesson or something to see. Okay, so then take this person that's perpetuating finding somebody that's like, I need to fix them. They don't essentially feel worthy about themselves or they learn that they need to be responsible.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And so that they try to fix somebody else that's codependent as a way to get them to love them and heal the missed experience that they didn't have when they were younger versus just cutting out the middleman and loving that part of themselves. And then they would resolve that pattern and they would stop putting up with anything less than they've offered themselves.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And so that they try to fix somebody else that's codependent as a way to get them to love them and heal the missed experience that they didn't have when they were younger versus just cutting out the middleman and loving that part of themselves. And then they would resolve that pattern and they would stop putting up with anything less than they've offered themselves.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And so that they try to fix somebody else that's codependent as a way to get them to love them and heal the missed experience that they didn't have when they were younger versus just cutting out the middleman and loving that part of themselves. And then they would resolve that pattern and they would stop putting up with anything less than they've offered themselves.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yes. It can never come from the outside in. It can never be satiated that way. And we really think, if I got the partner, if I got the job, then I will finally feel resolved and whole. And this is what we're sold to in society. So I love that this conversation is happening because sometimes I think people hear it, but then they just go back to the pattern.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yes. It can never come from the outside in. It can never be satiated that way. And we really think, if I got the partner, if I got the job, then I will finally feel resolved and whole. And this is what we're sold to in society. So I love that this conversation is happening because sometimes I think people hear it, but then they just go back to the pattern.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yes. It can never come from the outside in. It can never be satiated that way. And we really think, if I got the partner, if I got the job, then I will finally feel resolved and whole. And this is what we're sold to in society. So I love that this conversation is happening because sometimes I think people hear it, but then they just go back to the pattern.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And then they go, that pattern oftentimes is blaming their ex rather than taking the lesson and the gift from it. 100%.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And then they go, that pattern oftentimes is blaming their ex rather than taking the lesson and the gift from it. 100%.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And then they go, that pattern oftentimes is blaming their ex rather than taking the lesson and the gift from it. 100%.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yes. This is so important. I want to just double click on what you're saying. And everything we're talking about right now applies both to business and love. Just to be really clear for people that are listening. It's like same pattern shows up in different areas of our life.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yes. This is so important. I want to just double click on what you're saying. And everything we're talking about right now applies both to business and love. Just to be really clear for people that are listening. It's like same pattern shows up in different areas of our life.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yes. This is so important. I want to just double click on what you're saying. And everything we're talking about right now applies both to business and love. Just to be really clear for people that are listening. It's like same pattern shows up in different areas of our life.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yeah. And it's so innocent, you know, and I love your vulnerability and willingness to share that because I think it's so helpful for people to see that it can be unconscious and we're doing our best, but these are ways to secure love so that we feel safe.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yeah. And it's so innocent, you know, and I love your vulnerability and willingness to share that because I think it's so helpful for people to see that it can be unconscious and we're doing our best, but these are ways to secure love so that we feel safe.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

Yeah. And it's so innocent, you know, and I love your vulnerability and willingness to share that because I think it's so helpful for people to see that it can be unconscious and we're doing our best, but these are ways to secure love so that we feel safe.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And as we heal that directly inside of ourselves, it elevates not only our businesses, all of our relationships, but also then being a parent, you know, if you want to consciously parent, we're not enabling our kids and helping them really step into their full potential.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And as we heal that directly inside of ourselves, it elevates not only our businesses, all of our relationships, but also then being a parent, you know, if you want to consciously parent, we're not enabling our kids and helping them really step into their full potential.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Any Relationship with Aaron Doughty | EP 90

And as we heal that directly inside of ourselves, it elevates not only our businesses, all of our relationships, but also then being a parent, you know, if you want to consciously parent, we're not enabling our kids and helping them really step into their full potential.