Alyssa Nobriga
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Podcast Appearances
I don't feel it. And that's why I don't believe in the wrong person because what you're saying is everybody is mirroring to you or showing you a lesson or something to see. Okay, so then take this person that's perpetuating finding somebody that's like, I need to fix them. They don't essentially feel worthy about themselves or they learn that they need to be responsible.
I don't feel it. And that's why I don't believe in the wrong person because what you're saying is everybody is mirroring to you or showing you a lesson or something to see. Okay, so then take this person that's perpetuating finding somebody that's like, I need to fix them. They don't essentially feel worthy about themselves or they learn that they need to be responsible.
And so that they try to fix somebody else that's codependent as a way to get them to love them and heal the missed experience that they didn't have when they were younger versus just cutting out the middleman and loving that part of themselves. And then they would resolve that pattern and they would stop putting up with anything less than they've offered themselves.
And so that they try to fix somebody else that's codependent as a way to get them to love them and heal the missed experience that they didn't have when they were younger versus just cutting out the middleman and loving that part of themselves. And then they would resolve that pattern and they would stop putting up with anything less than they've offered themselves.
And so that they try to fix somebody else that's codependent as a way to get them to love them and heal the missed experience that they didn't have when they were younger versus just cutting out the middleman and loving that part of themselves. And then they would resolve that pattern and they would stop putting up with anything less than they've offered themselves.
Yes. It can never come from the outside in. It can never be satiated that way. And we really think, if I got the partner, if I got the job, then I will finally feel resolved and whole. And this is what we're sold to in society. So I love that this conversation is happening because sometimes I think people hear it, but then they just go back to the pattern.
Yes. It can never come from the outside in. It can never be satiated that way. And we really think, if I got the partner, if I got the job, then I will finally feel resolved and whole. And this is what we're sold to in society. So I love that this conversation is happening because sometimes I think people hear it, but then they just go back to the pattern.
Yes. It can never come from the outside in. It can never be satiated that way. And we really think, if I got the partner, if I got the job, then I will finally feel resolved and whole. And this is what we're sold to in society. So I love that this conversation is happening because sometimes I think people hear it, but then they just go back to the pattern.
And then they go, that pattern oftentimes is blaming their ex rather than taking the lesson and the gift from it. 100%.
And then they go, that pattern oftentimes is blaming their ex rather than taking the lesson and the gift from it. 100%.
And then they go, that pattern oftentimes is blaming their ex rather than taking the lesson and the gift from it. 100%.
Yes. This is so important. I want to just double click on what you're saying. And everything we're talking about right now applies both to business and love. Just to be really clear for people that are listening. It's like same pattern shows up in different areas of our life.
Yes. This is so important. I want to just double click on what you're saying. And everything we're talking about right now applies both to business and love. Just to be really clear for people that are listening. It's like same pattern shows up in different areas of our life.
Yes. This is so important. I want to just double click on what you're saying. And everything we're talking about right now applies both to business and love. Just to be really clear for people that are listening. It's like same pattern shows up in different areas of our life.
Yeah. And it's so innocent, you know, and I love your vulnerability and willingness to share that because I think it's so helpful for people to see that it can be unconscious and we're doing our best, but these are ways to secure love so that we feel safe.
Yeah. And it's so innocent, you know, and I love your vulnerability and willingness to share that because I think it's so helpful for people to see that it can be unconscious and we're doing our best, but these are ways to secure love so that we feel safe.
Yeah. And it's so innocent, you know, and I love your vulnerability and willingness to share that because I think it's so helpful for people to see that it can be unconscious and we're doing our best, but these are ways to secure love so that we feel safe.
And as we heal that directly inside of ourselves, it elevates not only our businesses, all of our relationships, but also then being a parent, you know, if you want to consciously parent, we're not enabling our kids and helping them really step into their full potential.
And as we heal that directly inside of ourselves, it elevates not only our businesses, all of our relationships, but also then being a parent, you know, if you want to consciously parent, we're not enabling our kids and helping them really step into their full potential.
And as we heal that directly inside of ourselves, it elevates not only our businesses, all of our relationships, but also then being a parent, you know, if you want to consciously parent, we're not enabling our kids and helping them really step into their full potential.