Alyssa Nobriga

Except yourself. And for the singles who are having sex and they're wondering, because a lot of the time there's a lot of narrative, I think, for singles with sex of like, if I have sex too soon, is it going to ruin the connection? Are they going to judge me? Or am I not going to be a wife category, for example, women? Or does that mean like there's some rule I need to follow that I'm not hearing?

Except yourself. And for the singles who are having sex and they're wondering, because a lot of the time there's a lot of narrative, I think, for singles with sex of like, if I have sex too soon, is it going to ruin the connection? Are they going to judge me? Or am I not going to be a wife category, for example, women? Or does that mean like there's some rule I need to follow that I'm not hearing?

Except yourself. And for the singles who are having sex and they're wondering, because a lot of the time there's a lot of narrative, I think, for singles with sex of like, if I have sex too soon, is it going to ruin the connection? Are they going to judge me? Or am I not going to be a wife category, for example, women? Or does that mean like there's some rule I need to follow that I'm not hearing?

I think there's a lot of narratives for singles around sex. Can you...

I think there's a lot of narratives for singles around sex. Can you...

I think there's a lot of narratives for singles around sex. Can you...

Yes. I love the permission in that and just helping take your power back. I also think there can be something really kinky and beautiful and of like edging of just working it up. And so slow it down and enjoy that process. If that's your truth. Cause I know some women are feel like, Oh, if I, if I have a drink, I'm more open having sex.

Yes. I love the permission in that and just helping take your power back. I also think there can be something really kinky and beautiful and of like edging of just working it up. And so slow it down and enjoy that process. If that's your truth. Cause I know some women are feel like, Oh, if I, if I have a drink, I'm more open having sex.

Yes. I love the permission in that and just helping take your power back. I also think there can be something really kinky and beautiful and of like edging of just working it up. And so slow it down and enjoy that process. If that's your truth. Cause I know some women are feel like, Oh, if I, if I have a drink, I'm more open having sex.

And then I have the oxytocin, the connection, and that's more false. It's more chemical. And so that that's their truth. Then just slow it down and say, explore what it's like without all that. But I love the permission to just have your experience and just make your own rules. Absolutely.

And then I have the oxytocin, the connection, and that's more false. It's more chemical. And so that that's their truth. Then just slow it down and say, explore what it's like without all that. But I love the permission to just have your experience and just make your own rules. Absolutely.

And then I have the oxytocin, the connection, and that's more false. It's more chemical. And so that that's their truth. Then just slow it down and say, explore what it's like without all that. But I love the permission to just have your experience and just make your own rules. Absolutely.

Yeah. Great. Yeah. Yeah. And that was it. And it comes back to me for like all the inner tools also. So like if, you know, there's some healing or attachment and you can do the work to really unravel that. So you really choose people that are in alignment with your values and the way that you want to be treated and seen and you're showing up for yourself that way.

Yeah. Great. Yeah. Yeah. And that was it. And it comes back to me for like all the inner tools also. So like if, you know, there's some healing or attachment and you can do the work to really unravel that. So you really choose people that are in alignment with your values and the way that you want to be treated and seen and you're showing up for yourself that way.

Yeah. Great. Yeah. Yeah. And that was it. And it comes back to me for like all the inner tools also. So like if, you know, there's some healing or attachment and you can do the work to really unravel that. So you really choose people that are in alignment with your values and the way that you want to be treated and seen and you're showing up for yourself that way.

So anybody else is not a match will easily fall away without judgment. It's a lot easier that way.

So anybody else is not a match will easily fall away without judgment. It's a lot easier that way.

So anybody else is not a match will easily fall away without judgment. It's a lot easier that way.

Fear. It's all fear. It's such fear. I appreciate it. You've been so open about your story of unraveling performative sex for people that have really focused on performative sex because that's what they've seen in porn and maybe nobody talked to them about sex and

Fear. It's all fear. It's such fear. I appreciate it. You've been so open about your story of unraveling performative sex for people that have really focused on performative sex because that's what they've seen in porn and maybe nobody talked to them about sex and