Alyssa

And so he didn't feel like I respected his boundaries.

So that's why he feels like he had to get a rental to be like fully out.

Our therapist said the same thing.

Not even.

Our therapist says that to me.

She is like, you've done it.

For how long?

So.

No.

And I can strongly say that, but the, but the problem is, is because he never wanted to do therapy like separate.

And then our couples counselor was like, I think this counselor that I know would be like really beneficial for you to like, to your husband, he said separate.

And she like, was like, she will do great.

She can talk about your childhood trauma because I feel like that's been coming back up because he's been

he's been bringing that up too.

Like how his trauma was in childhood.

And yeah, he's just like really in a dark place.

So he is doing therapy.

Like he, he's only gone once, but he goes again on Wednesday and he has another one booked in January.

But of course this is going to be such a slow process because he works the way.

Well, yeah, he's doing it remotely tomorrow.