Alyssa

Oh, gosh.

That I didn't move when he wanted to.

Okay.

A little bit.

I mean... I can be... I'm an anxious attachment.

So, like, even after this emotional affair has happened, like, I feel like I'm even more anxious with our relationship.

That bothers him because he doesn't want to have to deal with my emotions.

He wouldn't say he was the victim, but he's definitely good at controlling the environments that he puts himself in.

Because he's so unattached at the moment.

So like, I don't.

I feel that he cares, but I don't know.

Because he still like makes the effort to talk to me and ask me about my day.

And when, before when we were like, when he was having the emotional affair, he was able to like just talk to the kids and he hung up.

He didn't care about what my day was like.

He didn't,

like want to ask about it.

So I can see that he cares.

We were joined also on our finances together for like our whole time being together.

And then when he wanted to divorce two years ago, he took everything away from me.

So I was financially like taken off of everything.